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Christine Witkowski's avatar

Your question and the question mark are exactly right. And your reflections remind me so much of the advice from Rilke: “…try to love the questions themselves like locked rooms and like books that are written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.” We are living the question, truly.

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Alison Krupnick's avatar

I love that. Thank you.

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Lani's avatar

Great post! I love (and share) your three goals for living here.

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Samantha Segal's avatar

What a lovely and thoughtful meandering, no doubt mirroring your discoveries in Portugal. Thank you for sharing!

This month I have house a learner who is same training as me and almost done. It is a really cool evolving friendship, like me she is very independent and travels for work with her dog. I am working on a more comfy van build, that will allow me more freedom to detach from the bricks-and-mortar job I've carried x 20 years. :)

And my father's family was from Odessa, my maternal grandmother fled from Kiev pogroms. We are all interconnected in someway. Thank you for, as always, showcasing our shared humanity. And food of course.

🍁🧡 Sam

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Samantha Segal's avatar

Oops should read thank you for sharing, as always,....my bad ,😅

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Systems & Symmetries's avatar

Alison-

I celebrate with you.

I hope you will eat krupnick at home AND roast duck with strangers.

You will unequivocally enrich your beautiful community.

Dave

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Alison Krupnick's avatar

Awww, thanks Dave. I miss our long talks.

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Clara Barton's avatar

That line in Candide has also weighed heavy with me since I first read it in French in high school. You are Alison, cultivating your own garden in a chaotic, unpredictable, violent, unjust world.

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Alicia Dara's avatar

So much to ponder, thanks Alison! I'm planning a trip home to Canada in the next few months and I already know things are going to be different this time. Following your ongoing Portugal narratives, learning with you :)

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•the point of singularity•'s avatar

I'm planning my way to Portugal. Salguerinhas? Hmmm...

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Mary Beth Lambert's avatar

Impressive way to step up your PB game! Have fun!

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Jenna Vandenberg's avatar

I want to play a Mardi Gras pickleball tournament!! Good luck :)

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Rafael del Castillo's avatar

A friend recently gave me this advice:

Mind your own business

I am not "for everyone" and everyone is not "for me"

I AM "for me!"

PS - May scouting trip to Sicily is booked

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Alison Krupnick's avatar

Happy to hear that!!

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Julie McCoy's avatar

This is a great travel story. And your treasure hunt to go food shopping doesn’t sound much different than rural upstate NY. I often have to drive 70 miles ONE way to get a decent piece of fish. Hopefully in Portugal you won’t have that problem. Enjoy!

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Leslie Hoge's avatar

I love this post! What a huge adventure you’re undertaking. We are doomscrolling here in the US as well. I went to the protest at the federal building, and it was so healing to be standing in solidarity and community. There is much work ahead. Try not to doomscroll so much from afar. I have to believe that is even more difficult than being here. The view from sunset hill park always starts my day nicely….no matter how crazy the world is, I can always catch my breath outside in a beautiful place.

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